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2022.01.21 02:22 Budget-Tadpole7218 I (19F) am having to move into my dad’s house this summer. We don’t have a good relationship and I really need some advice.
Hey everyone! I’ve never been on reddit before, but I watch a lot of youtubers like “two hot takes” who read stories off of here. It seemed like a good community to get advice from since you all will be unbiased for the most part, and I don’t really have anyone else to really turn to. So, I'm giving this a shot. (Pre-warning, i really hope i didnt make this hard to follow.)
(explanation on what’s happening currently with moving is summarized first, and details on family history and drama comes after for those “straight to the point“ people.)
So, my mom and my step dad are moving to florida this spring. I‘m in college so I can’t go with them and i dont have my own place. So, i have to move my things into my dad’s house and live with him, my younger brother “Rick” (16), and our stepmom for close to four months until i return to school. The literal thought of this makes me panic not just for me, but i have a cat who is my ESA and means the world to me. Its not that i necessarily think that my dad would hurt my cat, but a part of me really doesn‘t trust to bring her there. I dont trust my dad with my feelings or well being, so how could i honestly trust him with my cat? I don’t know what to do, or really what advice i’m looking for, but read further for a long explanation on father and i’s relationship.
My parents have been divorced for almost 9 years now, so it’s nothing new, nor has it ever bothered me. My dad got remarried a year after the divorce, I’ve been living with my mom, and had those typical Tuesday and weekend visits to my dad’s. I have never had a good relationship with him. I have a difficult time saying I was “abused” because I don‘t want to jump to extreme lengths, but there has always been a great power imbalance between us. Before the divorce, my father was always incredibly quick to anger, and I think that has had some intense psychological affect on me. I’ve never been able to handle a serious conversation with him, and being around him always makes me nervous to the point of being physically exhausted at the end of the day. When I was really young, like before hitting teen years, it seemed like he didn’t pay me much mind. But once i hit puberty, he really started cracking down on me. Entering high school, i basically stopped going over there on a regular basis, but when i did, he always seemed to find a way to corner me about something whether it be about being in my room too much or my tone. (Typical parent/teen dynamic, but amp up the intimidation.) One of my most vivid memories from my sophomore year, was when he was doing laundry and didn’t approve of a pair of my underwear. It wasn’t even a thong, but he threw them in my face and scolded me. He said, “it always starts here“ and that “one thing will lead to another“ basically he went on to say that such Things should be reserved for a husband 🙄 i didn’t say anything in the moment because any time i have to defend myself against him, which is often it seems, i just clamp up and cant speak. things got worse when i found out he told his family about the incident though, which obviously doesn’t help with the confidence of a really depressed and near suicidal teen.
That encounter with him in particular really just solidified our relationship. With his reaction to a pair of black cheeky undies, i knew i couldnt trust him with anything. (there has been a lot of other instances that put a wall between my dad and I, this one just really sealed it in place.) So, since then, i have tried to keep away from him and his wife, only seeing them on the rare occasion. My younger brother has been living with them for about three years now. (Another long story i won’t get into) Since moving in with them, he’s become really attached and defensive of my dad in particular. Rick always seems to be angry that i keep a distance from our dad, and has tried to make me “fix things” by apologizing. I haven’t given in, and ive tried to explain my position (simplifying it because i dont want to ruin his relationship with our dad if he is treating Rick well) but Rick won’t have it. Over the past year in particular, Rick has become a spy, relaying information about me, to our dad.
another thing to take note of, i was raised conservative and strongly christian, but for the past couple years Ive stepped away from that and am now democratic and agnostic. My mother knows this, and supports me. My little brother has snitched to my dad about me being a leftist as well as taken snippets of conversations i had with my mom in another room, and told dad about some of my political beliefs. When my dad found this out a year ago, he wasnt happy. He wrote me, i repeat, WROTE me a five page letter begging for my explanation. I didnt respond and chose to ignore it. i have never had a conversation with my dad about politics or religion because i know i wouldnt be able to get through it. I always break down and cry and shake when he’s started what could be considered a “serious“ conversation. Im not like this with anyone else, and i hate that he affects me in this way. I dont think he knows Im not christian, but I do know that once I start living there he’ll expect me to go to their church which is something i dont think i can mentally handle at the moment. (i have a bit of religious trauma) The last time i visited their house was this past christmas, and just being there again after whole year really affected me more than i thought it would. I hate there, it doesnt feel safe. (It doesnt help that theyre anti-maskers) Ive tried to ask my mom to not put our house up until late summer so i can just stay home, but she said they have to. i just have this gut feeling that my dad will try to corner me into having a conversation about politics or religion. Im planning on getting a job so i can be busy, but I’m also working on publication so i still have to spend a lot of time in the house. ive thought about setting boundaries, but i dont know how to do that when i have such a hard time communicating to him, not to mention i have no idea what boundaries i would set. I have always been bad at communicating my emotioms and staying strong around my dad. I’ve literally spent nights crying about this, and dreading the start of summer break. I just feel incredibly powerless. I know that this all is a lot, and im not even sure if it makes sense. (I‘m sure im forgetting some important detail that I’ll remember later) I don‘t know if there‘s any possible advice to give, but thank you nonetheless if you read to the end.
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2022.01.21 02:22 fuji_na Is Mansions of Madness considered complete?
I believe with Eldritch Horror FFG came out and said that the product was complete and that no additional content would be released, but has the same been said for MoM? Or is the product line just in Limbo?
I was looking into a premium storage solution for the game but didn't want to commit to anything until we get some word over way or another.
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2022.01.21 02:22 Shizumi_Aoki The collection of older TOMY Zoids kits are slowly growing! (Still have some more in stroage needing to be build and even more on the way xD)
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2022.01.21 02:22 Kurumi_Shadowfall SMT 1 emulator vs SFC?
I own SMT 1 on the super famicom, but haven't played it yet. I'm curious if it's one of those games that's basically required to be played on an emulator for save-states and turbo? Or is it still at least decently playable in its original form? The only downside to emulating would be I can't play on my CRT.
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2022.01.21 02:22 M0dusPwnens Old G600 Anywhere?
Is there anywhere I can get hold of the older G600 model?
I've gone through two G600s over the years, and they're by far the most comfortable mice I've ever used. I don't even use the thumb buttons - it's just the only mouse I've ever tried that has ever fit my hand well.
A few months ago, my middle click started getting inconsistent, and I've had a few other problems, so I thought it was time to buy another replacement. But the mouse that showed up was not the same. The model was silently changed and the new one is so disappointing.
The clicks feel hollow, the plastic feels cheaper, it has a cheap rubber cable instead of the nice braided one, and, worst of all, there's a plastic lip on the bottom right where the rubber grip ends, which catches every time I lift the mouse. It went from my favorite mouse, by far, to a mouse I don't even want to use.
I'm wondering if anyone can point me in the right direction to find one (or even a couple) of the older models still being sold anywhere.
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2022.01.21 02:22 T32123T REV WoF
How the ACTUAL HELL do you beat this thing? I've died 15 times now which I know may not seem like a lot to some but for me that's an eternity. I'm trying to beat it with overloaded blaster (slime god slime thrower) with dirt walls every so often to block the lasers but the lasers go through walls and the lasers are undodgeable. please help
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2022.01.21 02:22 Heyyayam Pain after weight lifting
Hello, I’ve had 2 successful fusions (1982 and 2013) totaling T2 > S1 with a cage built above my hips and screws in my pelvic bones. I’m fortunate that I had an excellent surgeon and have minimal pain even though I look like the bionic woman on X-rays.
Recently I started lifting weights and was really enjoying it until 4 weeks in when I started experiencing sharp pain and stiffness between my shoulder blade area.
Common sense would dictate ceasing this activity however my question - is it advisable to completely stop or just lower weight? Not that I’m lifting that much, maybe 25 lbs at most.
Has anyone else experienced this? Thanks.
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2022.01.21 02:22 IllumiNotHD Too little flairs to choose from so I chose meta
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2022.01.21 02:22 NaveRobo Halo Infinite Destorys My Computer... Help
I recently got Halo infinite and my computer is literally the slowest thing ever seen by mankind when I have it open. There is constantly a blue circle, the music is choppy, I get put offline and I cant even get in my friends party. I have a GTX 1050 TI and a I have a i5-6400 CPU @ 2.70 GHZ and my monitor 2560 x 1080, 164Hz. I did try minimizing the game, it didn't work in minimized or in fullscreen. Help bois.
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2022.01.21 02:22 GODYpharroh11211 Is C Section glitch or not working?
I have beaten the beast with lilith and unlocked c section but its not showing up in my item list like i never unlocked it. Is their any reason it isnt working i play on ps4
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