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2021.11.29 18:33 saleh7908880 My research on halal and haram acts between the husband and wife and a call to wake up and go back to our roots as Muslims.
Bismillah, Asalam alykom my dear brothers and sisters , The Muslim World used to be far more sexually progressive than we are today. My theory is that due to Western cultural hegemony, Muslims reacted by rejecting the West’s sexual permissiveness in order to preserve our Islamic heritage. In doing so, we have thrown the baby out with the bathwater and rejected what is perfectly halal for us to enjoy, of the ways between a man and a woman. The Sahaba were more liberal than the conservative Muslims of today and more conservative than the liberal Muslims of today.
Imam Al-Suyuti wrote a sex manual entitled “Nawadir Al-Ayk” as an appendix to a longer book on the benefits of marriage called “Al-Wishah min Fawa’id al-Nikah.” In it, he lists more than 48 sexual positions – laying down, on one’s side, seated, standing, and on one’s knees. He also mentions techniques for delaying orgasm and different ways to move the penis. He also discusses female orgasm and affirms that women like different things. He also includes a how-to for pleasurable sex.
The Imam also opined the best sex manual was “Tuhfat al-’Arus wa-Nuzhat al-Nufus,” by Abu Abdillah ibn Ahmad al-Bija’i. Imam Al-Ghazali’s Ihya Uloom Al-Din also has a section in the chapter on marriage on how best to have sex. He mentions, for example, that the minimum frequency of sexual intimacy should be once every 4 days unless one has a valid excuse, that the husband should continue to penetrate the wife until she reaches orgasm if he climaxes before her, and other specifics.
General Guidelines About Sexual Intimacy In Islam First, I’m going to state the obvious. We are not talking about pre-marital, extra-marital, or homosexual sex. It goes without saying that these are all haram. When we talk about sex in Islam, we’re talking about a Muslim man and a Muslim woman who are married to each other.
In this context, Here are some general rules:
- Everything is allowed except anal sex and period sex (that is, sex while the woman is menstruating.)
- Use your best judgment and when in doubt, err on the side of caution. This is a good practice in all matters, worldly and religious.
- Both spouses must agree to what they are doing during intercourse. You are not allowed to force your spouse to do something he/she doesn’t want to do.
- If someone tells you a particular sex act is haram they need to prove their claim. This is because, in worldly matters – things that aren’t acts of worship – everything is halal until proven haram. To add you can also refer to my previous post about Qaradawi's Warning against playing with the word “haram".
There are slight differences in rulings depending on which madhab (school of law) you follow. Some are more strict than others. The fatwas I’ve included in the article are all from Shafi’i and Hanafi scholars. I couldn’t find any Hanbali or Maliki references. For the rest of this article, I’m going to list the sex acts and summarize my findings. I’m not going to go into technicalities unless necessary. If you want to know the details, please read the linked fatwas. TL;DR: Summary Of Halal And Haram Sex Acts
This is for those of you who just want quick answers and don’t want to read the entire post or the fatwas referenced.
Detailed explanations with sources:
- Blowjobs — Allowed. Don’t swallow any sexual fluids
- Eating pussy — Allowed. Don’t swallow any sexual fluids
- Cumming on her face/body — Depends. Some say allowed, some say not allowed
- Swallowing cum— Swallowing cum is not allowed, male or female
- Eating ass — Allowed. Don’t stick your tongue inside the anus
- Vaginal fingering – Allowed
- Anal fingering — Not allowed. You can massage the anus with your fingers without penetration
- Masturbation – Not allowed. Mutual masturbation between husband and wife is allowed
- Handjobs – Allowed
- Titty bang — Allowed
- Butt job — Allowed
- BDSM — Allowed
- Sex toys — Allowed. Don’t penetrate the vagina or anus with the toy
- Phone sex — Allowed. Masturbating during phone sex is not allowed
- Cybersex — Allowed. Masturbating during cybersex is not allowed
- Food play — Allowed. Keep it away from the genitalia, don’t let it touch any sexual fluids, and don’t waste any of it
- Threesomes – Not allowed. You can only have sex with one wife at a time. Sorry, fellas
- Anything is allowed, except what is forbidden, i.e. anal sex, or having sex during menses or confinement period. "Married couples are allowed to enjoy each other’s body as they wish except what is forbidden" See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/87423/what-to-do-if-husband-demands-oral-sex
- Enjoying the buttocks, even close to the anus, is halal. Anal sex, however, is emphatically prohibited. Imam Shafi: "With regard to enjoying what is between the buttocks without penetrating, there is nothing wrong with that". Ibn Qudamah: "There is nothing wrong with enjoying that which is between the buttocks without penetrating". From Rawd At Taalib: "He may enjoy everything except her anal sphincter, even that which is between the buttocks. As for enjoying the anal sphincter it is haraam". "The words “As for having intercourse in her anal sphincter…” – such as if part of the tip of the penis disappears into it. See https://islamqa.info/en/answers/71345/intercourse-in-the-back-passage.
- Looking at each other naked: "It is permissible for either spouse to look at the entire body of their partner and to touch it, even the private parts. Bahz ibn Hakeem said that his father narrated from his grandfather that he said, 'O Messenger of Allah, from whom should we conceal our private parts, and to whom can we show them?' He replied, 'Conceal your private parts, except your wife and what your right hands possesses (meaning slave-girls).' [At-Tirmithi graded it Hasan (good)]." [Al-Mughni]. See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/356650/using-thick-cloth-instead-of-condom
- Oral sex is allowed if one is careful not to ingest haram fluids. Some scholars call this "filthy" or against the fitrah. Weak evidence, but I respect their view. If oral sex is "filthy", then certainly any sexual act can be labelled as "filthy" by somebody's subjective opinion. "Though it is permissible, it is advisable to observe the noble, good and general Islamic decencies in enjoying wife". See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/87423/what-to-do-if-husband-demands-oral-sex. "It is permissible in the Shafi’i school for a man to perform oral sex on his wife; that is, using his mouth or tongue to pleasure his wife’s private parts." See https://seekersguidance.org/answers/shafii-fiqh/is-it-permissible-to-perform-oral-sex-to-ones-wife-shafii-school/
- BDSM: It stands for "bondage-discipline, dominance-submission, sadism-masochism". If both parties agree, and there is no clear harm, and each party is respected, what is the problem? "Every form of permissible intimacy between the husband and wife is a mutual one with mutual understanding and agreement. If the husband and wife mutually agree on “BDSM”, that is their choice, for which there is no prohibition in Shariah." See https://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/13277
- Spreading impurities, and rubbing: Special case for sexual acts. Although normally not permitted, scholars permit this during sexual acts. "The Shafi’i school does not generally permit spreading impurities without due cause. However, it is likely the case that impurities spread during intimate acts are considered a due cause or forgivable and overlooked. The school explicitly permits using the entire body in intimate acts, which can predictably lead to the spread of impurities". See https://seekersguidance.org/answers/shafii-fiqh/is-it-permissible-to-perform-oral-sex-to-ones-wife-shafii-school/
- Finger in anus: allowed. Some scholars say makrooh, but I've read the daleel, and it is weak. Basically, because you're hand touches najas. Based on this, cleaning yourself after the bathroom would be permissible, as would any intercourse, since it is undoubtedly madhiy. See https://islamqa.info/en/answers/44971/repulsive-forms-of-pleasure
- Kissing genitals allowed: "The basic ruling regarding the wife seeking the pleasure of her husband's penis is that of permissibility, however, that which is feared is that this act may lead to possible oral intake of sperm or prostatic fluids. The Hanaabilah have indicated the permissibility of a wife kissing her husband's penis, as is mentioned in ((al-Insaaf)) of al-Maardeenee [Volume 8, Page 33], and this is the opinion of Ibn 'Aqeel and other than him. Also, Asbagh from the Maalikiyyah has indicated the permissibility of a man kissing his wife's vagina as is mentioned in ((Tafseer al-Qurtubee)) [Volume 12, Page 231]. " See https://www.islamicity.org/qa/action.lasso.asp?-db=services&-lay=Ask&-op=eq&number=30878&-format=detailpop.shtml&-find
- Sucking genitals: "There is no direct and explicit evidence in Shariah that prevent from sucking a husband’s penis or licking a wife’s vagina. Hence, it is permissible". See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/87290/sucking-the-wifes-breast
- Sucking breasts, including drinking milk: "As for sucking the wife’s breast, it is permissible". From the Standing Committee of Saudi Arabia: "It is permissible for the husband to suck his wife’s breasts, and if any milk reaches his stomach it does not have the effect of making him a mahram". See https://islamqa.info/en/answers/47721/the-limits-within-which-a-married-couple-may-enjoy-intimacy-with-one-another-and-the-ruling-on-a-man-suckling-from-his-wife and see https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/87290/sucking-the-wifes-breast
- Rubbing genitals against other body or breasts: "For example, the school’s texts mention the permissibility of a woman masturbating her husband and vice versa, or him rubbing his penis on any part of her body, including the anus (short of penetration)". See https://seekersguidance.org/answers/shafii-fiqh/is-it-permissible-to-perform-oral-sex-to-ones-wife-shafii-school/. Also by Sh. Musa Furber : "Hanbali books mention that it is lawful for a husband to achieve ejaculation by his wife masturbating him, and by rubbing his penis between her thighs or breasts". See http://www.2muslims.com/directory/Detailed/227094.shtml
- French kiss: When tongues kiss passionately. "the French kiss is among the permissible manners of enjoyment between the spouses". See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa%2F177077%2Fhis-wife-does-not-like-to-do-french-kissing . Ibn Hajar: "It refers to sucking her tongue and lips, and this happens when playing with one's wife and kissing her, so this meaning is very possible." See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/92445/
- While asleep: allowed with conditions. See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/91995/wife-enjoying-her-husband-sexually-while-he-is-asleep and https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/192701/sexual-intercourse-during-iddah. Also: "It is permissible for the husband to enjoy his wife whether she is awake or sleeping". See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/34013/enjoying-sleeping-wife. Also "وكذلك الاستمتاع بها وهي نائمة جائز". See https://www.islamweb.net/afatwa/382132/
- During menses, anything is allowed except vaginal sex. From IslamWeb: "it is permissible for a person to enjoy his wife while she is menstruating as he wishes, except having sex; the Prophet said: "Do everything except intercourse." (Sahih Muslim).". From Ibn Uthaymeen: "The words “He may enjoy everything else of her apart from that” means that the man may enjoy every part of the menstruating woman apart from the vagina.". See https://islamqa.info/en/answers/47721/the-limits-within-which-a-married-couple-may-enjoy-intimacy-with-one-another-and-the-ruling-on-a-man-suckling-from-his-wife
- Masturbating each other is allowed. "It is not haraam, rather, it is permissible, because it is a part of the enjoyment which Allaah has allowed". See https://islamqa.info/en/answers/826/masturbation-between-husband-and-wife
- Saying "obscene" things is allowed. some people are not into this and some are into it, but that does not mean would not stop anyone, for example, calling your wife a whore, in general, could be considered as slander which is haram , but indicating to her to be yours is fine. e.g. "naughty" slang words to refer to the genitals or each other. See IslamQA https://islamqa.info/en/answers/45597/speaking-during-intercourse-to-provoke-desire
- Using food to help in pleasure is not considered "wasting", inshaAllah. How is it wasting food if you're using it for something beneficial, to increase the pleasure in a halal relationship i.e. lubrication, coolness or psychological benefit. This could actually be a good deed. A similar example is using food for hair or jewellery: "There is nothing wrong with that if it is of benefit." [bin baz]. See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/290404/making-jewerly-from-rice-grains
- Sex toys: are permitted with conditions. Should be used as an aid by a spouse, not be as a substitute. Should not resemble a real genital. The spouse must be the source of pleasure, e.g. the wife using silk clothe/banana peel to pleasure the genital of the husband. See https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/349060/wife-pleasuring-husband-with-piece-of-silk. But an automatic vibrator is likely not allowed. See https://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/28476. If something fits genital and is operated by the spouse, this is grey area E.g. a stick of some sort.
- Via video: is allowed. but must not use hands. If one reaches ejaculation without using the hands that is fine. But there are other dangers, like privacy. See https://islamqa.info/en/answers/90099/man-enjoying-intimacy-with-his-wife-via-the-internet. See https://islamqa.info/en/answers/108872/talking-to-ones-wife-over-the-internet-and-finding-pleasure-in-that
In the end, Let’s be 100 and keep it real with each other and use some common sense here. Get married, hump each other’s brains out, and have screaming orgasms. Just don’t stick it in her butt or in her vagina when she’s bleeding(period). And don’t swallow any cum or precum (husband or wife.)
That pretty much covers everything you need to know about halal and haram sex. And I hope you have benefited from this post and until next time, Asalam Alaykum.
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